Relationship Tools and Skills, One Article at a Time
Our collection of short, informative articles offer essential tools and skills to help you reshape your relationships around your needs. Each article offers opportunities to explore new ways for you to:
Understand your true relationship needs
Raise your awareness in attachment and mindfulness
Embrace a growth mindset in your relationship
Fix what feels broken in your relationship or relationship patterns
Keep what feels right in your relationship or relationship patterns
Why your support system could be the missing piece in your healing from depression, anxiety or eating disorder
It takes a village. The Crucial Role of Support Systems for Emerging Adults in Recovery from Eating Disorders, Anxiety, and Depression.
“Where is this going?”: How to ask and where to start
In this article, we'll explore tips on how to have the “where is this going?” talk
6 ways to build confidence to feel more comfortable with and without your partner
In this article, we'll explore strategies for building confidence in yourself and your relationship so that you can feel comfortable with and without your partner
Financial Anxiety: How to stabilize in the short-term and recover long-term
One of the most important long-term solutions to your financial anxiety is seeking support from others. This may involve talking with trusted friends, colleagues/peers (outside of work), family members, joining a support group or seeking professional therapy/counseling.
My experience in the Iranian culture: understanding intergenerational trauma’s impacts from a place of empathy
My experience in the Iranian culture: understanding intergenerational trauma’s impacts from a place of empathy and how it can help with the healing
Shedding labels: Growing from the anxious one to defining your own role
Despite all the effort you’ve put into therapy, the growth that you’ve experienced in your life, no one seems to notice except you. While people in your system may be slow to catch on, remember that other peoples’ ability to adapt to your changed behavior will likely be slow, and that your progress is still valid!
Social Media Burnout: Why confidence on social media doesn’t mean you can’t feel anxiety in real life
The life we post online and our real lives are often incongruent. Humans are naturally complex, unique, and multifaceted, and social media cannot capture every dimension of YOU. Anytime we feel a disconnect within ourselves, we often experience a range of mixed emotions, insecurities, and dissonance.
When is it okay to quit my job? Why quitting isn’t always giving up
Quitting is not always giving up, leaving a job that doesn’t meet your needs after you have taken these four key steps is actually a sign of growth.
What are Burnout Signs and Symptoms? And How to Build the Best Plan to Reduce Burnout in 2023
This is a guide to understanding burnout signs, symptoms, and building the best plan to reduce burnout.
Embracing Your Lived Experience
By learning to embrace our lived experience, we release the pressure that we “should” be a certain way and, instead, we just be. We learn to accept that “negative” emotions can exist without tearing us apart… without weighing us down.
Masculinity, an asset or a liability
Being a man does not mean you must battle anxiety, depression, and the stress of your job or family alone. Being able to face your issues is one of the most challenging things you can do (and also the most rewarding). This is why it is crucial to have someone you trust so you can talk about your struggles and your vulnerability won’t be judged like it was the first time you decided to open up and it didn’t go your way.
Facts not feelings
I’d like to offer you a reminder that your feelings are not facts. While they may feel real - feeling anxious may often lead to feeling a rapid heartbeat or getting that heavy feeling in your chest - this does not mean that your feelings are ultimate truths. Consider instead that your feelings are guides - they offer important clues and insight into what you need to attend to in your body and mind.
Boundaries are love
The foundation of boundary setting is created through intention and care for yourself. There are many needs that you may be sacrificing in order to please those around you. As a result, you spend more time living for others than building a life that is truly aligned with your happiness and peace.
Identify, Focus, and Process: Resilience even without others understanding
It can be difficult to confront these feelings because you were not provided the safety to process openly and feel seen, heard and validated by the people you are closest to. You can practice these skills in resilience to overcome these toxic cycles and you deserve relationships that meet your needs.
Authenticity: The key to a healthy relationship
When you regularly accept your partner giving you less than what you deserve in an argument (or in a relationship), you are training your partner to say/do more things that do not meet your needs.
It’s the Most Wonderful - and Overwhelming - Time of the Year
There is no right or wrong way to spend the holidays. Breaking the cycle of discomfort over the holidays means planning ahead, letting go of all the pressure, reflecting on what’s helped in the past, giving yourself more grace, and reaching out to people you trust for help if you need it.
Why am I the only one with this problem?
The hardest part of anxiety and depression can be believing that you are the only person with these problems, or thinking you have a “me problem.” In fact, most of the issues people have are “we problems.”
Party of 1: The truth about change in therapy
What happens when I change but the people around me stay the same? Don’t they have to change, too? The short answer is: to see benefits and experience growth in therapy, the only thing that needs to change is you.